In my work with people, and in
human life in general, I feel that there are two significant
polarities – our ability to experience mutual connection
with others, and our ability to sustain and uphold our inherent
human dignity. These polarities operate together to help us
fulfill our lives. In our personal development and in therapy
and counselling key difficult issues often form around them.
My approach is to pay attention
and to help clients pay attention in order to deepen our awareness
of the choices and decisions we make. In order to do this we
need to challenge ourselves in compassionate ways, to think
and experience ourselves in new and perhaps deeper ways. It
is my job, in an atmosphere of both kindness and challenge,
to facilitate this process.
In order to do this I help direct
the client’s attention to expanded awareness of themselves
and their situation by attending to body sensations and how
those connect to emotions, to choices, and to unexplored thoughts
and feelings. The intention is that blockages and outworn assumptions
might be released. My belief is that we all by our nature contain
the abilities and potentials that we need to deal with our lives
and development.
I use techniques derived from
Bodynamics (see links page), from guided imagery, from Gestalt
therapy and from relationship and family therapy and many other
sources. My work tends to be primarily verbal with a lot of
emphasis placed on bodily experience and sensation. Sometimes
we use breath to create gently enhanced states of awareness
to facilitate deeper understandings and release.
I have worked as a counsellor
in various venues in BC since 1974 including residential treatment
for children and in a social work agency. I have been in my
private therapeutic practice since 1982.
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